Monday, July 28, 2008

The Mind-Body Connection

Poor Lloyd. He's had something going on in his "gut" for lack of a better term for about a week. Finally insisted he go to the doctor on Friday and he's got diverticulitis (infection of the small intestine) pretty badly. Hopefully he's on the mend, but he still needs a nap every day to help fight the infection that's knocking him sideways. I swear there's a mind-body connection going on here and that it's related to a certain someone who shall be nameless that won't behave. Then again, he'd be sick all the time if that were it so maybe his mind wins most of the time! I do know it's very hard to see a strong man be so sucked down by an illness, normally very healthy, but thankful his problem should be "easy enough" to recover from. I hope I'm not in trouble for writing about his gut today! I'll write about mine another time! :-)

Today Vanessa had a friend from church come over to spend the day (thanks Jennifer!). She likes her lazy summer days, but since she's with us half time in the summer it's great that she has the fellowship of friends in the church to spend some summer days with. Having friends in the gospel in far and distant lands or just across town is such an asset we have with this church that I'm so grateful for. It's been a bit of a struggle to get the schedule worked out to spend time with Vanessa, but the perserverence has been worth it. She can have such a sweet spirit about her and the kids just love each other. The talks in church yesterday about Honoring Thy Father and Mother (youth speakers -- they both did a GREAT job, parents should be proud, too!) and building a celestial family were awesome and so true. When our kids are in tune with the spirit, the family not only runs better, but we feel the spirit very strongly and we learn a lot from the kids, too. It's a slice of heaven. I don't know how much the kids were listening to the talks, but maybe their spirits were because we really enjoyed them yesterday.

Saturday, July 26, 2008

My First Post

Life has been extremely challenging with forces pushing and pulling on this tender family, forces that we can feel just about daily. I am thankful for a strong testimony in the gospel so that I understand what those forces are and why and it keeps me that much more committed to having a strong gospel foundation in my life so those children who wish to move forward and receive the blessings that come from living the gospel have that opportunity because we provided the way and the example. I have hesitated for some time to have a blog, feeling primarily protective of my family, but have decided it's time to be free from that. I want to thank Stephanie's example in blogging to get me to realize that it's better to share and be public than to be made afraid to do so. It is in sharing our joys and trials that we are able to lift each other up.